Posts Tagged: friends


17
May 08

JapanSoc Tutorial – Making Friends Part 2

In the first part of this tutorial, I went through the steps you need to add friends and send messages in JapanSoc. In this part, I’m going to explain how you can track your friends’ activity.

Step 1: Understanding the profile page

From your friends list in your profile page, you can access any of your friends’ own profile pages. Since I’m so active on JapanSoc, I’ve used my own profile for this tutorial.

The profile page has seven tabs, as follows:

  1. Personal Info – your main page with your intro and user stats.
  2. Submitted – all the posts you’ve submitted to JapanSoc.
  3. Top Stories – posts you submitted that made the front page.
  4. Upcoming – all your other posts.
  5. Commented - these are the posts you have commented on.
  6. Soc’d - these are the posts you have voted for.
  7. Favorites – posts you have saved/favorited/bookmarked.

Step 2: Subscribing to a friend’s submissions

With the exception of the Personal Info page, all these pages have a unique RSS feed icon in the top left corner, as shown:

Friend\'s RSS Feed

That means you can subscribe to a friend’s activity, which comes in very handy if you’ve cheekily teamed up with someone to soc each other’s posts! If this is the case, I would recommend subscribing only to your friend’s “submitted” RSS feed, as that includes all your friend’s posts.

You could also subscribe to the “Favorites” feed, explained in step 4.

Step 3: Subscribing to multiple RSS feeds

If you’re a hardcore JapanSoc’er and have more than one friend (which I hope you do!), you might consider using a free service such as RSS Mix to combine all your friends “submitted” feeds together into one single RSS feed.

Step 4: Understanding “Favorites”

On social bookmarking sites like Digg and StumbleUpon, your “favorites” would be considered the posts you have dugg or stumbled. JapanSoc, on the other hand, has both “Soc’d” and “Favorites” pages. So what’s the difference?

Soc’d posts are the ones you’ve considered good enough to vote for. I tend to soc an awful lot of posts (582 as I write this!), but that doesn’t mean that I think they are all brilliant articles which are worth printing, framing and hanging on the wall.

Favorites, in the JapanSoc sense, are the best of the best, the ones you actual want to save so you can find them again in the future. These are the posts you want to tell all your friends about.

Step 5: Adding Favorites

Below the post you want to add to your Favorites is a link, “Add to Favorites”.

Add to Favorites

When you click that link, you’ll be notified of success and given the option of going directly to your Favorites.

Successfully added to Favorites

Posts that you have “favorited”, can be removed by clicking the “Remove” link. (Don’t worry Billy, I didn’t click it!).

Favorites and Remove

You’ll also notice that there is an RSS icon on the Favorites page, too, so you can subscribe to your friends’ favorite posts.

A New Addition to JapanSoc

Recently FavoritedAt the bottom of the JapanSoc sidebar, I’ve added a new box showing posts that users have recently added to their favorites. It’s worth keeping an eye on this box as you might find some great articles you had previously missed.

Of course, it also provides another opportunity for some self-promotion. If you add your own stories to your Favorites, they are going to appear in this box for all to see.

Summary

Now you know how to create a list of favorite posts in JapanSoc, and share your recommendations with friends using the RSS feeds in your profile pages.


21
Oct 06

Long distance friendships

I woke up this morning to find an email from one of my best childhood friends – talk about a pleasant surprise! We last made contact about ten years ago, so it was great to hear from him. It got me thinking about how people maintain long-distance friendships.

When I first came to Japan on a homestay, my great Scottish aunt asked me to track down her pen-pal, Kubo Hide-san, who she had written to for forty years before the letters dried up. In her nineties, she had no idea whether Hide-san was even alive, so it was a really special moment for me when I found her living in Kyoto at the grand old age of 96. I made the trip from Nagoya and was invited into her home for tea and a chat. Her English was remarkably good so we traded stories about my great aunt. After that they started to write to each other again until my great aunt sadly died a few years later.

Snail mail was how I first kept in touch with my parents after moving to Japan. It cost a fortune to call England at that time, so letters were our main means of communication. Even after I got online in 1998, it was another couple of years before my parents did the same. So since 2000, email has brought us a bit closer. Last year however I stumbled across Skype and can now pick up the microphone to call them through the computer whenever I like for just a few pennies a minute. My mum and dad are yet to get broadband but I’m sure in the next year or two we’ll be video conferencing for free.

At the rate technology is improving, I wouldn’t be surprised if video conferencing really takes off soon. I imagine a time when you can sit down for dinner with someone on the other side of the world! Just turn on that 60′ plasma TV and talk, eat or drink with your family or friends just as if they were in the room with you! It would certainly bring people closer together.

If only I could have set up a video conference for my great aunt and Hide-san!

UPDATE!

After writing this post, I received an email from SightSpeed:

We represent SightSpeed and have found that other educators are taking to using video conferencing both in their classrooms and personally coming to the same conclusions you are reaching. The ability as you post implies to cross great geographic divides and to stay in touch via the Internet is changing the way we all communicate. Video is clearly the next wave.

I’ve already signed up (it’s free) and am just waiting for my webcam to arrive before I give it a go. The customer support has been friendly and fast, and the software itself looks really good – I’m particularly pleased to see it available in Japanese, not just English. In fact, it currently supports ten different languages. Naturally, I’m starting to think that I may be teaching from home via the internet in the not-too-distant future! Take a look at SightSpeed for yourself at http://www.sightspeed.com.