Posts Tagged: manners


20
Mar 07

Japanese manners – part 3

In part 1 of this series, you saw a video about dropping litter in bicycle baskets, and in part 2 I showed you a commercial aimed at stopping people from eating on trains. Both of these videos are part of an ongoing effort to improve manners in a country where you can pretty much get away with anything, because very few would dare tell you off.

The following video, sadly not the final version that made it onto national television, addresses a different problem. We know that Japanese people like to avoid confrontation, hence the need for the previous two commercials, but there is another, perhaps more serious problem caused by people’s “shyness”.

Because of Japan’s densely populated cities, there are hundreds of towering apartment blocks. These are homes to hundreds of people, many of whom are single, living alone. The problem is not knowing your neighbors. Let’s say you see someone suspicious lurking around the building, or perhaps there’s a fire. Would you warn your neighbors? If you hear someone screaming, or the building rattles in an earthquake. Would you check to see if your neighbors are okay? Most Japanese living in these huge apartment buildings wouldn’t.

This video shows two young guys in an elevator, both on their way down to throw out their rubbish. They probably meet at the same time every week to do the same thing, but never say a word. The man on the right is holding a newspaper with the headline, “Earthquake magntitude 5″, and the caption halfway through the video reads something like “Would you help your neighbor whose name you don’t know?” Finally, they both decide to introduce themselves and the video ends with “start conversation, start it yourself”.


15
Mar 07

Japanese manners – part 2

In part 1 of this Japanese Manners series, I showed you a public service announcement to encourage people not to drop litter. In this country, people would rather turn a blind eye than tell a stranger off for doing something they shouldn’t.

This next video isn’t the final version that made it to TV, but the message is the same. The glossed-up final cut was shown in commercial breaks during prime-time TV hours to the entire Japanese population. It tackles the unforgivable problem of eating cheeseburgers on trains, and reminds you that “The train is not your room”.

I don’t know if it’s implying you shouldn’t eat on the train, or if you should clean up the ketchup that leaks from your burger. I’ll let you decide…

Note: The video ends at around 40 seconds, but continues doing nothing for much longer.


14
Mar 07

Japanese manners – part 1

In England, if you’re talking in a movie theater, there’s a good chance the person behind you will tell you to ’shut it’. If you drop litter in the street, someone might pick it up and throw it back at you. If you’re eating, drinking, walking, smoking, or even peeing in a place you shouldn’t, someone is likely to call you up for it.

Half way around the world however, things are quite different. The Japanese are a quiet bunch who will go to great lengths to avoid confrontation. As a result, it’s up to public service announcements to remind people of the rules.

The first video in this series of posts is about dropping litter. I don’t recall actually seeing this one on TV, but it highlights a serious problem in Japan – that of throwing trash in someone’s bicycle basket! Watch how the rubbish is passed from basket to basket until one poor guy at the end gets to take it home with him.

I’ll admit to having had litter thrown in my own bike basket, and like everyone else, I passed it on to the next. Shame on me.


26
Oct 06

Would you pass the chopsticks exam?

In today’s Mainichi News, there was an article about a high school in Nagasaki that will start checking if applicants can use chopsticks properly. The ‘chopsticks test’ will be part of their entrance exams next year.

Officials of Sasebo Women’s High School said that they wound like to see if applicants have acquired the minimum levels of eating manners by checking their use of chopsticks.

The “chopstick inspections,” which include picking up slippery beans, will influence the screening process to a certain degree, officials at the school said.

What a laugh! Imagine not getting accepted because of poor manners at the dinner table! Perhaps there should be ‘knife and fork’ tests in our schools back home. Hmm…somehow I don’t think they’d get public support.

The article reminded me of when I was made to take part in a peanut eating contest at a Toyota Motor Corp party during my homestay. There were games laid on for the employees’ children and I guess they thought it would be funny to pit a foreigner against them. The Japanese generally assume that foreigners can’t use chopsticks so imagine their surprise as I skillfully picked up the peanuts and gobbled them down. The kids were falling behind so the mums stepped in and got me to pose for photos (peanut to mouth) while the kids caught up.

I still finished second and was rewarded with a koro koro, best described as a poor man’s vaccuum cleaner – a sticky tube on a stick.